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  • Writer's pictureMagdalena Jedowska

The Best Tips on Smooth First Day of School: Preparing Your Anxious, Pre-Verbal Autistic Child.

The first day of school marks a significant milestone in every child's life. Still, it can be particularly challenging for children on the autism spectrum, especially those who are pre-verbal and prone to anxiety. As a parent or caregiver, your role in preparing your child for this transition is paramount. This blog entry provides practical guidance on preparing your anxious, non-verbal autistic child for their first day of school, ensuring a positive and comfortable start to their educational journey.

1. Establish a Familiar Routine:

Non-verbal autistic children often find comfort in routines. As you approach the first day of school, maintain a consistent daily schedule that includes meals, playtime, and rest. This stability can help ease their anxiety and provide a sense of predictability.

2. Introduce Visual Supports:

Visual supports are crucial for non-verbal individuals as they provide a means of communication and understanding. Create visual schedules using pictures or symbols to represent different parts of the day, such as getting dressed, eating breakfast, and going to school. These visuals can offer reassurance about what to expect.

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3. Sensory Preparation:

Visit the school environment beforehand to familiarise your child with the sensory elements they might encounter. Let them explore the classroom, playground, and other spaces they'll be in. This can help them adjust to the sensory input and reduce potential overwhelm. Luckily, most SEN schools offer so-called transition days to help children to cope with the unknown.

4. Create a Comfort Kit:

Assemble a comfort kit filled with items that soothe and calm your child. This could include sensory toys, a favourite blanket, or anything that brings them comfort. Having these familiar items nearby can provide a sense of security during times of stress.

5. Collaborate with School Staff:

Contact the school and meet with the teachers and support staff to discuss your child's needs and preferences. Please share information about their communication methods, sensory sensitivities, and any strategies that work well for them. Collaboration can ensure a smoother transition and better support throughout the school day.

6. Communication Strategies:

Explore alternative communication methods that your child can use to express their needs. This could involve using picture-based communication systems, gestures, or assistive devices. Sharing these methods with the school staff can help them better understand your child's cues.

7. Practice the School Routine:

Replicate the school routine at home to help your child become accustomed to it. Practice getting dressed and packing a bag. Consistent practice can alleviate uncertainty and anxiety.

8. Positive Associations:

Create positive associations with the idea of school. Show them pictures or videos of children enjoying school activities. You could also plan a visit to the school playground or attend any orientation events, if possible, to help your child associate school with fun and friendly experiences.

9. Plan for Transitions:

Non-verbal children might struggle with transitions. Implement visual cues or timers to signal upcoming transitions between activities. Gradually increase the duration of these transitions to help your child adapt to changes smoothly.

10. Be Patient and Observant:

Transitioning to school is gradual; every child's journey is unique. Pay attention to your child's cues, emotions, and behaviour, and adjust your approach accordingly. Celebrate their progress, no matter how small, and offer encouragement.


Preparing anxious, non-verbal autistic children for their first day of school requires thoughtful planning, patience, and a deep understanding of their unique needs. By incorporating these strategies into your preparation, you can help your child feel more comfortable, confident, and ready to embark on this new chapter of their life. Remember, your unwavering support and dedication are crucial to ensuring their successful transition to school and fostering their overall well-being.

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